I think it is OK for someone, even someone married to decide who to get their property, it does not necessarily go to the mate. I know that in the case of my first marriage my wife gave some property to our son. Of course, in that case I did not protest it in any way, but I still think it is OK to do that.
In the case of a church, I believe that in most States anyway, the sale of church property should go to the denomination (and Living Word was a denomination by all understanding) or a church sale should go to other churches or charities, not to any leader or to anybody in the congregation.
In the case of a church, I believe that in most States anyway, the sale of church property should go to the denomination (and Living Word was a denomination by all understanding) or a church sale should go to other churches or charities, not to any leader or to anybody in the congregation.