slandjt,
Regarding your 6/19/16 post and sorting out if your Walk experience with the HS was real, it may be helpful to take a look at Chapter 4 Section on Spiritual Gifts Which Are Temporary starting at paragraph 13 of the following link [walvoord.com]
I share your thoughts that sorting out what was real and true can be part of our healing journey.
Regarding your 6/19/16 post and sorting out if your Walk experience with the HS was real, it may be helpful to take a look at Chapter 4 Section on Spiritual Gifts Which Are Temporary starting at paragraph 13 of the following link [walvoord.com]
I share your thoughts that sorting out what was real and true can be part of our healing journey.